Dating Decoded For You

So you have just watched Mila Klunis plant one on Justin Timberlake in ‘Friends with Benefits’ and wondering, “When will my moment come?” Well, with technology at your fingertips, the world is your site. There are plenty of fish in the pond. What began as a practise of two ‘betrothed’ people meeting up to get to know each other before taking it a step ahead, has now become a necessity for the youth of this generation. Some think you to be uncool if you have turned 16 and haven’t had your first date. While is concept of dating is archaic, modern day versions include blind meetings (with at total stranger), casual meets, sexdates and hook-ups. Whichever category you fall into, it is your decision which mattes at the end of the day.

On the Line

Online dating is by far the most popular today. You register yourself on a site, fill up a profile with your details (psst…not all the truth) and then list down that which you would be interested in. Within a few seconds you are connected to thousands of people and the journey begins. People go through you profile and pictures uploaded, you do the same with others, and the rest is needless to say. Likes, conversations, flirtatious talk, exchange of email ids, cell phone numbers and there you are, you’ve met up. Not all situations flow by so seamlessly, fake profiles, perverts and the mentally handicapped delusional is sure to hit at you. Some sites provide the option of blocking a person who seems to irritate you.

Dating Do’s and Don’ts

While some fall in love at first ‘type,’ others take their time before meeting a person. Online dating is a great way of getting to know people and making friends but the negative aspect are worth giving a thought. While the internet is flooded with sexdate sites, one can always try recommended ones. Just go onto Google and type in the search bar and you will have a great online dating site before you.

While dating intentions vary from person to person, it is not worth falling face flat on the ground on the very first meeting. Play a little hard to get, tantalize each other. Enjoy the moment without preconceived thoughts ruining your evening. Be the person you are on your date, it is appreciated rather than being politically correct and technical. At the end of the evening, you should walk away with a memory.

The darker side to it would be; don not go in with expectations. Yes, keep an open mind and enjoy your time. Expect surprises! The picture you saw in the profile may be ten shades lighter and 5 pounds lesser than the actual being.

Everything said and done, do not judge a book by its cover, read on, flips those pages to know more. Don’t just read a Victorian romantic and look for your Elizabeth Benet or Mr. Darcy. For more information on the same type in your search bar and happy fishing!!